By Glen Don
THE INJURED INNOCENT PERSONALITY No one plants a seed , see it germinating then abandons it without seeing any fruit from the tree leave alone the tree reaching maturity. In the farm when you plant a seed and if you expect to have greater yield from the plant, then tender care is mandatory, weeding, top dressing and other field maintenance practices must be achieved.
When you plant your orange. seed then at maturity, the tree yields bitter fruit or smaller fruit the farmer should first judge his course. The journey.
In any given family the child is the seed that couple sees and everyone sees as the product of the family. It is a proof of the seed that was planted.
Domestic violence gains momentum in the current societies either passively or actively with the couple as the major perpetrators, whilst other violences reach extreme cases until the depart some persevere.
The main question is ; what about the children?
The Swahili proverb "how you raise a child is the way the child grow" is here to tickle mind.
The innocent personality of the children should be taken into consideration.
This tells why most of children may in the foreseeable future prefer singlehood to marriage. This is because whatever they lived to see in the family causes a lot of trauma in them.
The parents may be reunited or reconciled but first sight impression offers no second chance.
That mistake done when the child's mind has started maturing shall remain like a glue to stick.
Before couple are offered counseling the psychological counseling should first be addressed to children before matters run out of reach.
The children are the future generation. They are the fruits that have seeds for next generation, what has been implanted on them should be that of positive and virtues.
The children suffers a lot in any case of domestic violence.
If children are burdensome, the no need for the couple to fret searching for one because this is the younger soul being exposed to toxic environment by the actions of the two individuals.
By Glen Don
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